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Invitation
What if your relationship wasn’t the end of the journey, but the beginning?
So many people spend years doing personal work — therapy, retreats, men’s or women’s groups — with the hope that one day, they’ll “finally be ready” for love. But the truth is, your deepest work only begins when you feel safe enough in partnership for your shadows, triggers, and old wounds to surface.
Relational Alchemy is a 4-day, 3-night advanced retreat for couples who are ready to awaken through love itself — not as a side project, not as an afterthought, but as a living, breathing path of transformation.
This is not beginner’s Tantra. This is high-level relationship mastery.
It’s for couples who are both a full yes, who are ready to alchemize conflict into connection, rekindle passion beyond the “honeymoon myth,” and commit to a lifelong sacred flame.
A Sanctuary for Transformation
Nestled in Colorado Springs, Colorado, this retreat offers a pristine natural setting for renewal. You will be immersed in expansive Mountain views, nourishing meals, and a supportive community as you journey inward.
We invite you to slow down, attune to the wisdom of your body, and rediscover the essence of love within.
What You Will Learn
Conflict Alchemy
A repeatable protocol to move from trigger → truth → repair in hours, not weeks.
Pattern Work
Spot & shift your couple-pattern (codependency, people-pleasing, avoidant/pursuer cycles)
Polarity in Four Quadrants
Rekindle attraction without performing caricatures.
Nervous System attunement
Know when to meet a story, and when to hold steady ground.
Somatic Forgiveness Ritual
Move on from past ruptures in the body, not just in words.
Sacred Play & Devotion
Rituals that stabilize heat (worship, Thai massage for lovers, exotic dance night).
Deeper Communication
Separate story from sensation/emotion for clean repair.
Ritual & Rhythm
Weekly practices that keep the field clear, juicy, and growing.
Boundaries & Relational Awareness
Attunement on sovereignty, labor and old misaligned roles in the relationship
Retreat Flow
Day 1: Enter the Forge
We begin by building a field of safety and truth that allows real transformation to unfold. This first day is about grounding, attunement, and opening the heart. You’ll learn to see your relationship as a living crucible, a space where devotion, vulnerability, and truth meet. Together we set the foundation for the alchemy ahead, connecting to your partner not through performance but through presence.
Day 2: Conflict Alchemy & Nervous System Mastery
Every relationship holds friction. The question is whether that fire burns you down or forges you deeper. This day is devoted to transforming conflict into connection. You’ll explore embodied tools for repair, learn how to separate story from sensation, and understand your partner’s nervous system in a new way. By the end of the day you’ll feel what it’s like to move through triggers with grace, honesty, and love.
Day 3:Polarity, Play & Erotic Devotion
This is where we bring the spark back to the surface. Through movement, ritual, and sensual practices you’ll rediscover the current of erotic energy that lives beneath safety and trust. We’ll explore polarity, the magnetic dance between masculine and feminine energy, in a way that feels natural, playful, and alive. Expect laughter, movement, and moments that remind you how beautiful it is to be lovers.
Day 4: Legacy & Living Rhythms
On our final day we weave everything together into a living rhythm you can carry home. You’ll craft rituals and practices that sustain passion, deepen connection, and keep your relationship evolving over time. We close in ceremony, honoring what has been healed, what has been awakened, and what is ready to burn bright as your lifelong sacred flame.
Accommodations & Nourishment
You will stay on-site in a stunning retreat sanctuary, with accommodations designed for comfort and restoration.
All meals are included, with an emphasis on fresh, nourishing, and locally sourced ingredients. We are happy to accommodate dietary preferences upon request.
Is This Retreat
for You?
This is not a beginner’s Tantra retreat.
Relational Alchemy is designed for couples who are ready to go deeper than techniques or quick fixes.
This retreat is for you if:
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You’ve been together 18+ months (or feel grounded enough in your partnership to dive into advanced work).
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You’ve already done personal growth work — therapy, coaching, men’s/women’s circles, embodiment practices.
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You both want to be here (no one is being dragged along).
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You’re ready to face your shadows, triggers, and patterns with courage and love.
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You desire more than “stability” — you want long-term passion, truth, and devotion.
It may not be for you if:
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You’re brand new to inner work or hoping a weekend of Tantra will “fix” everything.
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You’re looking only for entertainment or surface-level practices.
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You’re in an active crisis that needs therapeutic or clinical intervention.
** We also work very successfully on these things, they just aren't the focus of this retreat. If you need support in these areas, reach out to us for other private or group opportunities.
This retreat is about mastering the alchemy of love — where conflict becomes connection, intimacy grows deeper with time, and passion becomes a lifelong flame.
Join Us
Step into a space where intimacy, truth, and love become a lived experience.
Reserve your place today and embark on a journey of Relational Alchemy.
