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Dancing with Polarity into the Pulse of Creation
A pulse that moves between what gives and what takes, what softens and what ignites.
Myth of Polarity invites you to meet that pulse — the living edge between stillness and movement, structure and surrender, play and pursuit.
Through guided exploration, energetic practices, and embodied inquiry, we’ll dive beneath the stories of “masculine” and “feminine” to rediscover the current that gives rise to both.
There’s a rhythm beneath everything.
There's a rhythm beneath everything.
A pulse that hums beneath stillness and motion, structure and surrender, the light and the shadow. We feel it when we're drawn to someone, when we hesitate, when we soften, when we burn.
In Myth of Polarity: Online Immersion, we slow that down. Over three weeks, we meet the pulse with inquiry - exploring where it came from, how it lives within you, and how it shapes the way you love, lead, and create.
This is not performance. It is remembrance.
WHY POLARITY MATTERS
Beyond roles. Beyond right and wrong.
Polarity is not a concept to master — it’s the heartbeat of existence.
When we learn to dance with it, we stop living in extremes and begin to embody wholeness.
We start to see how every moment of life — from tenderness to tension — is an invitation to presence.
To love what is. To let energy move.
To remember that light and shadow are simply two notes in the same song.
In this immersion, we don’t seek balance — we court aliveness.
We meet the pulse of creation and allow it to move through us.
A playground for polarity — a temple for truth.
Each session moves through teaching, conversation, and practice. Between sessions, you carry an embodiment practice into your week and bring what arises back into the group.
Over three weeks, we explore:
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The cultural and historical roots of polarity and why so few of us inherited a healthy model of it
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What outcome-oriented polarity actually looks like in relationships, work, and creative life
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The 7 C's of Conscious Polarity as a living framework you can apply immediately
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The four energies - Light Masculine, Dark Masculine, Light Feminine, Dark Feminine - and the deities that hold them
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The dynamics that generate charge between people and how those same patterns show up everywhere
No experience in Tantra is needed — only curiosity and a willingness to feel.
WHat you'll experience
The Container
​Each session opens in the body before it moves into the mind. We begin with a short meditation to arrive, move into teaching and discourse, and close with a practice to carry into your week. The following session opens with discussion of what came up - making the space between sessions as much a part of the work as the sessions themselves.
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Opening meditation
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Discourse and teaching
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Embodiment practice for the week ahead
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Live Q&A
Sessions are recorded. If you cannot attend live, the recording will be sent within 24 hours.
ABOUT US
BEN RAYA
After 30 years of being the classic western disembodied head on a stick, Ben has dedicated the last 7 years to practices of embodiment, somatic and awakening into real human presence.
The call came for him with the birth of his second child, a perfect mirror for all his disowned parts of himself, which launched him into the internal work he needed to step into the person that was necessary to raise her. This being the greatest gift he has ever received.
His primary tradition has been the study of classical tantra, with extensive time practicing modern Tantra, as well. Beyond those, Ben finds continued embodiment practice through Thai Massage, West African Drum and Dance, and Brazilian Zouk. Music has been in his veins since he was a child and even pursued in it in University. His mastery of working within the energetics of the rhythm of life to inspire and move the body is tantric in itself.
When he is not facilitating, coaching or with his children his is still working within his embodiment practice as a Lumberjack, where finding connection to nature, the body and the Dark Masculine, a rich and fruitful tantric practice in and of itself.
Ben is passionate about guiding others into new realms of embodiment, pleasure and connection.
LARINDA MICHELLE
Larinda has spent the last 20 years of her life in event and project production. This has taken many different forms from parties, psychedelic journeys, directing music festivals to sensual connection workshops. Within the projects she had been unconsciously began building a strong attunement for space holding and building communities.
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While on her own journey of healing, she found Tantra and immediately felt a deeper call to service. Taking the Practitioner Training through the Embodied Awakening Academy brought a new understanding of trauma, energetics and somatics that has has proven successful with many of her clients.
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Working closely within the Academy for the last three years has lead to incredible growth and understanding of love, communication and inner union. She is excited to be bringing these tools and practices to others, and to facilitate the deep journey into wholeness for others.